Various experiments on cats have shown obedience training is essential for your cat. First you have to be aware that cats have no awareness of punishment. So an encouraging behavior with a reward is much more effective during the training. Rewards for cat include two types: one is your praise and the other is delicious food such as a few kibbles of kitten food.
Remember to remain a short training session. If you find your kitten has mastered one training you have instructed her, move to the next fast. In addition, practice the commands in varied places within the house so that she gets used to responding to you in different occasions. You can also use the clicker technique to train your cats in different situations and other aspects. For example, you can encourage her to stand still for grooming; Get her used to travel in a car.
In one word, never think of your cat will obey you when you give her punishment.